I really hate fake people. Is it so hard to be real nowadays? I guess it is. What irritates me to no end though is when people talk about their friends. Is that really necessary? If you're gonna talk about your friend behind their back, it just shows that you can't be trusted. Now, it's understandable somewhat if your told your friend to their face what you were telling other people, but just talking about them behind their back isn't cool.
In my opinion, the thing that makes people talk about other people is insecurity. The person doesn't feel secure about themselves, so they talk about other people to make them feel better about themselves. I understand that you're insecure, but that gives you no right to talk about people behind their backs.
I will straight up tell you that I don't talk about people behind their backs. If I don't like you, I will tell you. Yes, I realize that it makes me seem like a real bitch, but I'm not going to be fake and act like I like you if I don't. Now, don't take that as me telling you to go and start telling everyone how you actually feel about them. If you want to do that, go for it, but beware the consequences and don't say I didn't warn you.
The worst thing though is when the person that you're talking about finds out that you're talking about them. Especially if it's a good friend of yours. Also, don't make it worse by trying to lie to them and tell them that you weren't talking about them. Own up to it. (Wo)Man up. You know how you could avoid that situation? STOP TALKING ABOUT PEOPLE. Just saying.
Nobody is perfect. I don't claim to be. But all I ask is that people stop being fake and that they stop talking about people behind their backs. And if you can't do that, at least stop talking about your friends behind their back. That's just sketchy. I hope some of what I said stays with you and you become a better person because of it. And even if you don't stop talking about people, I hope you at least feel bad about it. Sorry for guilt tripping you, but I'm just trying to make the world a better place and letting out my thoughts.
Thanks for reading!
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